Tips for Talking to Professors
Talking to a professor–out of genuine curiosity, a genuine interest in learning, a genuine desire to improve–is one of the smartest things a college student can do. Few students make it through college without seeking assistance from a professor for help at one time or another. In fact, it’s important to seek help rather than let questions or problems fester and intensify.
Professors want you to see them as a resource. They hold office hours for a reason, yet many students avoid these unless required to attend. Remember, unless you let your professors know otherwise, they assume you’re doing fine in the class (or you’re at least ok with how you’re doing). They can’t help if you don’t ask or seek them out!
So, how do you approach professors for one-on-one time?
1. Be respectful and mannerly. Call them by right title.
Before asking “What are your office hours?”, check your syllabus. If hours aren’t listed or won’t work, ask your professor when he or she can meet with you. A reasonable professor will understand that office hours cannot accommodate every student’s schedule. When you arrive, knock on the door, even if it’s open, and greet your professor by name. Most professors let you know what they want to be called. When in doubt, go with “Dr. [last name].”
2. Be prepared – professors are not mind readers.
Unless you’re just stopping by to chat (which is fine, by the way), have your questions prepared in advance. You need to be able to clearly articulate what it is you need help with. Besides, planning your agenda in advance helps ensure you don’t forget what you came there to do. Also, be sure to bring any necessary materials with you.
If you are having difficulty in a course, let your professor know that you realize it, and ask what you can do to improve. If you want to talk to a professor about something during office hours or via email–about a question that you didn’t get to ask in class or an idea that you want to discuss–just do the best you can. Your professor will very likely meet your genuine interest with kindness and encouragement.
3. Your professor is not Harry Potter.
Don’t ask the impossible of your professors. They are here to help you, but they are also restricted by course and departmental policies. Whatever your circumstances, professors have to hold you to the same standards and workload as the rest of the class. So go ahead and inquire about make-up work, extra credit, and other opportunities, but be prepared to do the work, and don’t expect easy outs. Brace yourself for disappointment, and if your professor says “no,” be prepared with a Plan B option and perspective. Also, if the conversation doesn’t go as planned, remember that I’m available to meet with you to discuss alternative resources and options.
4. Don’t wait. At the end, it’s too late.
You will not get far by approaching your professor at the end of the semester and declaring that you will lose your scholarship, get dismissed from school, etc., if you don’t receive a certain grade in the class. As you see signs of falling short of certain requirements as a JMU student, member of an organization, or scholarship recipient, meet with your professors. They most certainly agree that your grade is important, but in the end they cannot be held responsible for your earned grade or personal circumstances.
With midterms grades being posted soon, it’s a great time to assess your performance and see if a chat with your professor is something to consider.
Final thoughts – If you know you’re going to miss class, try to let your professors know ahead of time. If you’re sick, contact them. If you need an extension, ask before the due date, not after.
Tips for a Good Roommate Relationship
Is your roommate driving you crazy? Has the honeymoon worn off? Don’t sweep the problems under the rug and think they will get better. Take a look at a blog post from the summer for some tips on how to get your relationship on the right track. If you need more information or help, your
Resident Advisor is a great place to start. He/she can help draft a roommate agreement, mediate a dispute or conflict,
find alternative solutions, and so on.